Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Love yourself first!

Many of us may have been slighted as a child. Many of us may have missed the Love boat as a child but does that mean we can't learn how to Love as an Adult. We must be an example for our Children. Wake up people. We are the teachers, coaches, mentors but most importantly we have to Love Ourselves. Do you Love yourself? Well I do. Sometimes we have to say to self...."I Love Me."

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Sunday, May 22, 2011

They call it Tender Love!

As a child many of us were disciplined differently.(i.e. no TV, no outside, woopings, etc). Being wooped with an extension cord is that considered physical abuse? Well as a child I thought it was the norm. As I got older, I realized it was abuse. I remember I was afraid to change clothes during gym or wear shorts/tank tops in the summer due to the skin on my body being torn. There are many forms of abuse, physical, mental, sexual, etc. Do you remember of any abuse? if so, what age were you when you experienced it?

A smile says a lot but is it always what it looks. The kid(ME)looks happy in this pic but is he really. I say don't let a smile fool you.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30308315&l=19269c6062&id=1284227912

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Peace Beyond to You!

Don’t be afraid to spend time alone. Don’t just settle and spend time with someone just because you are lonely, because you will find yourself disappointed and full of regret. Stop worrying about what others think of you. The best time is self time. Get to know yourself again, because when you go through you will come to……..A Place of Peace!

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Take Ownership!

Have you ever been Married or Engaged? What does it feel like to be  left on the side of the road with all your old baggage. Have you considered you may have contributed past problems from previous failed relationships? Well I have never been married but did experience the engagement which FAILED because I made the decision not to look within MYSELF, however, was quick to  blaming the other person.  It’s so easy to blame someone else to take the attention off yourself.
 If you are reading this and haven’t experienced either, I enourage you take this as a lesson and look within yourself before you put blame on someone else. Your relationship could be a success!

Do you Believe God is first?

For those who believe in God understand that he is everything and without him nothing is possible. When God is missing from any relationship that you have whether it's romantic, friendship, sibling, etc. If God is absent from that relationship, is the relationship affected? If so, how?

Tuesday, May 17, 2011