10 Ways to Attract the Best Man for YOU.

1.) Know who you are - if you don't know who you are you can't expect anything from anyone else. A man who knows who he is, will be able to tell if you know who you are. 2.) Be transparent and honest from the start - there is no need to play guessing games. If you want to attract the right man, he needs to know that you are a no nonsense woman. 3.) Be what you want to attract - you will not attract something you are not. The energy you put out into the world will be exactly what you attract. 4.) Have standards - don't settle for someone jut because he's a nice guy. There are plenty of nice guys out here, but there are slim pickings for the best one for you. 5.) Demand respect - many times women think that respect is automatically given, while this may seem logical you're presentation and your conversation will go a long way to establish that respect is a must. 6.) Understand his past - everyone has a past, but unless you've known where a person has been you have no idea who they are and where they are going. How you start doesn't have to determine how you finish, but many times it can give u an indication. 7.) Family - how does he treat his family? Is family important to him? All families have their share of problems, but if family is not important this could be a red flag. 8.) Finances - does he have bad credit, spends money impulsively, etc. how a person manages their money is important. Having a financial plan for the future is as important as maintaining good health. 9.) Communication - most men don't know how to express their emotions. Effective communication is essential to any healthy and long-term relationship. If he can't talk, you are better off talking to yourself. 10.) Must believe in God and have an evolving relationship with him - you don't have to be a church goer, but you must understand that God is everything and without him nothing is possible.

Believe in you!

Remember, you don't have to worry about counting on other people as long as you have that one person you can ALWAYS count on.. YOURSELF!

Have an open heart!

Believe it and it will happen. Claim it and it's yours. Take care of it and your back will be protected. Love so you can receive love. Protect your heart. Know your heart. Stop playing with your heart

All in your hands!

If you're not happy, do something about it. Nobody likes a complainer, especially the one that's doing you wrong. If they don't care, why should you? Why deprive yourself of happiness that you deserve.......

Nothing is promised!

We take for granted because we woke up yesterday that we are going to automatically wake up tomorrow. Well, somebody wasn't so fortunate of waking up this morning, so thank God for waking you not the alarm clock. You are not in control, God is!

Get out of your own way!

Don't miss out on the person for you because you have a long laundry list. Nobody is perfect, neither are you. God created all of us equal, however everyone is different. While you are making so many comparisons from one person to the next, you are missing out on something great. There will always be something about a person you don't like and vice versa. Just remember the most important thing at the end of the day......Does this person and will this person have your back, your side and your front at you're lowest point and not only when you're at your highest.

Do you know?

You need to put in the work of defining beforehand what you want out of a partner and a relationship. If you do not know what you want, do not date. If you know what you want, don't change what you want based on the person that you are dating. Your Love Capacity will expand when you gain more relationship discipline.